The Brutal Facfs

Brutal facts are not always pretty or inviting, but they are reality. Initially brutal news may take you back and even make you feel beat up. But take heart, it is good for bad news to travel fast. You are better off to hear negative news first, before the information becomes filtered through other perspectives, or the facts fester and become worse.

Brutal facts that are not given attention move from an inflamed infection to relational and organizational gangrene. Inevitably there follows an amputation; someone or something has be severed. This extreme action could have been avoided if the brutal facts had been revealed, recognized and acted upon early. Brutal facts are our friends; so do not dismiss the messenger because the message is bad, he or she is just the delivery person.

The wise receiver of brutal facts will extract the “chaff and keep the wheat”.

A brutal fact may relate to your finances and/or your property situation. What is the reality of your cash situation? Take care of your " financial business" or it will take care of you by tumbling down around you.


So where can we find these brutal facts? Your trusted advidsor, Your spouse, parent or friend that has some "horse sense" is a good starting point. They have a vested interest in you, so normally their perception of the facts is fairly accurate. Listen with an ear to learn, but if you become defensive or argumentative they will eventually shut down. Because they care, is why they want you to be aware.

Why not change on your own terms rather than being forced to change on another’s? This is the essence of brutal facts—there are some things that need to change. You, the work culture, and your family are always in flux, so use this as an opportunity to move from mediocrity to excellence. Embrace the brutal facts, learn from them and become better.

Do you currently have concerns that need to seriously consider? Askl youself, "How do I need to change"? "What trusted advisor can assit with making the right" decision.